I’m not saying she should omit everything but it’s hard for victims of abuse to speak up out of fear. So maybe she’s scared? It’s easy to say from our point of view that it’s easy just tell him. And to be honest I don’t think this post is real, re read it and there’s about 5 blaring inconsistencies in it. But I do hear where you’re coming from. I’d attempt to be understanding, easy for me to say, but I think I’d feel betrayed by not knowing the truth. So I understand where you’re coming from 100%. My and my fiancé have been best friend for 15 years since we were 12, so it complicates my ability to think about situations like this sometimes because I already know everything about her and it’s hard for me to imagine not knowing if you know what I mean