Should I confess to my fwb?

UPDATE: should I confess to my fwb?

Hello! I met up with him today and it was chill! We watched a movie and yes ended up hooking up lmao. I know you are all wondering if I confess or talk to him bout my feelings and our situation… i did not..

Yes he was cuddling me and such but he mentioned how he wants to find a woman (even tho he doesn’t like anyone apparently) He also kept telling me to go date his friends and sleep with them (i think he’s joking bout this tho idk lmao) And He’s also telling me to find people and hook up with them, but I also tell him to do the same thing (only saying that cause he says it to me) But once again, he will ask me if I did hook up with others even tho I always tell him I’m not the type to have more than one partners lmaoo

But I’ve just realised that he doesn’t like me that way. And by me accepting this, it has basically reduced my expectation of a relationship and my feelings for him. My friends are still persistent on how I should still confess my feelings to him but truth is, all of this is just from a gut feeling. Idk how guys act especially him. But I just feel like if he constantly keeps saying “yes go and hook up with other people” “go on that date” then idk (and just to clarify no he has not hooked up with anyone during our time together) And I also believe he doesn’t like anyone because I know for a fact if he were to like someone he wouldn’t be the type to still hook up with me. I know that he isn’t just the “fuck and go” kind and he does care about me. What makes me laugh is how he always says “I won’t be able to see you for weeks cause I’ll be busy” which is true because he does have two jobs and is balancing uni now.. but I always know he always does make time to see me since I’ve been seeing him atleast once a week. (these days it’s been the afternoon not night tho so yay haha) So I know he does care about me. But yeah. Idk if it’s still worth confessing knowing my gut feeling but I just don’t want to act delusional that’s all.

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