Should a person that doesnt want their SO to masturbate or watch porn be more available sexually?

IMO YES! If I’m not allowed to masturbate yet my partner doesn’t want to be sexually available for me when I’m horny that would lead to so much sexual frustration! If you’re partner is going to establish these rules and boundaries they want you to abide by I believe they should also be willing to provide something themselves. It makes no sense to restrict someone from satisfying their wants/needs AND not provide an outlet for these needs to be met. Sexual compatibility is so important in a relationship; if you have a really bad sex life relationships are usually doomed. HOWEVER, it doesn’t mean your partner should always be available EVERYTIME you want it, but just more frequently if they want to place demands/ restrictions on you.

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