Should I stay or should I go?

Update: We have went to counseling for 1 session as lockdown has eased up in our province, things appear better, the therapist has mentioned for me to withdraw on my jealously and that there is no way I can prevent her from cheating if she really wants too. My wife has assured me she is just feeling lost and feels like she serves no purpose other than being a parent and wife. She has stayed adamant on not being able to decide if she wants a future with me but also wants to attempt to fix herself and our marriage. I have lost close to 50lbs and have been much more helpful around the home and given her the privacy she is so desperately seeking.

Am I naive by staying around? We have discussed "if" we split "this is what we expect". I feel as if I've come to terms with it and am growing resentful towards he, I feel like tearing the bandaid off and just saying it's over because I feel it may be inevitable. I walk around confused and conflicted daily and present a false hope and happiness.

Hoping therapy works

Hoping my wife will be hit with sudden realization that she indeed wants me

The kids still have no idea any of this is going on.

Sincerely Torn

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