This is absolutely not an ongoing dynamic at all, in fact i have very rarely ever cried in front of my child, i can count on my hands the times i have cried in front of her, which is why she was so concerned. I wasnt even crying in front of her, We didn't talk about it in front of her and I wiped my tears but she is smart and could obviously tell that I had been crying and was begging me to tell her why I was so upset, even after i told her i was fine and not to worry. My point was that she handles changes very well for a kid her age, and understands that things dont always go the way we want. But so glad the Reddit psychologists can diagnose my family based on one post