Since I can’t post my original story (idk why), I just came here to look for support. I think my bf 3,5 years is cheating and I really need support right now

If he is masturbating himself by interactive websites, webcams and so, and not just porn, it’s a red flag for me. I understand, and I explained it in the comments above why I did it. How many of us was the good girlfriend/boyfriend and respected their privacy and being cheated on and lied to for years? I know I did with him.

I believe some people should be checked. And I know that I wouldn’t mind if the person is checking on me if it will make their doubts go away. That behavior wouldn’t last long, just until they see that I trully have nothing to hide.

There are awful people out there and I’ve wasted too much time on people like that and I can understand that other people have too, and have their trust issues. It doesn’t last forever, I’m not a controling girlfriend, I would never waste so much time on someone’s life and not on mine, but I need to make sure about some things before I plan the future with this guy. As I said, I trusted this guy with all my heart since he was always like a friend to me.

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