Okay. If you cannot describe the guys you selected, is there anything from your side that might be putting them off?

Talking about future events in the relationship, talking about past boyfriends. Setting limits or rules or even telling "shock" truths, such as being an independent woman.

Men are like children, we want to feel needed. If we think you do not need us, then you more than likely will not keep us.

This is not to say men do not want successful partners, just that relationships are give and take and as I said, men lile to feel needed and need to feel they are being 'a real man'.

None of the traits you have said you posses are negative. So it's either them, your behavior or a mismatch in status.

It could be looks, but men are pretty shallow, so you wouldn't have likely reached three dates if you were not presentable.

Unless they didn't think it was a date?

You've also not said they have done anything wrong, as though they just vanished for no reason.

There were no signals that things were not progressing?