single in the urban city, is the dating scene dead?

I really wish I could get an answer for this too. I'm in North Jersey. And as my... husband... posted below using one of his many throwaway user names. (I don't care and just use my regular one). The one "Gay Get-Together" we went to before COVID, he "rekindled" a friendship with someone who he used to fuck, even though I said that was one of my things I was not okay with him doing, so I really wouldn't call that a success lol. Now with COVID, it seems impossible to meet others. I've tried on Facebook etc., and unless you're 21 with a 6 pack and a 12 inch dick, no one wants to be "just friends" with you (which defeats the purpose of looking for a friend?). I've flat out looked for friends and have been ignored because I wasn't the person's type even though they posted they were looking for friends lol. And not for anything, I'm not like a horrible looking guy. :shrug:

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