My experience is that when people rant about the looks standard they are projecting their own insecurities onto others as “discrimination”. Yes people have preferences. There are skinny guys who are only into fat guys and vice versa. Few people if any chide others for their looks, though it does happen I’m sure. If it happened to me I would just block the person and move on. A person grappling with this needs to re-examine how they operate. Do they aim for guys who are out of their league? Do they not get the hint other guy isn’t interested in them from their sudden lack of communication and prod annoyingly for a response thus soliciting an angry and blunt one? Does the person who lack of confidence about themselves that turns people off and then assumes it’s the thing they were insecure about rather than their own unattractive insecurities?

With regard to racial preferences, everyone is entitled to their own. If a person says no white guys for instance does that mean he is racist? Not necessarily because he might just not get turned on by white guys. This is a profile-based online dating/hookup world and people are just being to the point. I’m sure these people don’t discriminate against said people in their social and work lives.