Wait wait wait a second.....Going by this post im able to infer that i should stick with the cool kids to look cool.I get that but isnt that along the lines of getting codependent again.Think about it its like a form of people pleasing. I personally am not really into any cool circle.Ive always realized that many dudes in these cool circles are just gimmicks,shallow eyc.Yeah sure they might a strong standing in society but i wudnt sell my soul to get a chance to be a part of one if it wasnt to be my real selves.These dudes r hell bent on coming off as edgy .Idk being an empath im hell bent on being authentic nd in deep connection to someone.I hate the shallowness of these groupness so i tend to keep away from em.Plus most people who fit in these circles have more stable lives while mine is rocky and nobody understands me so i keep away from the "cool kids".Personally such words disgust me coz why group people in such ways .We r all humans nd we have somethin valuable in each of us.