Social unawareness and dating

Met an engineer on Match who was a doozy of social ineptness, pretention and creep. He talked incessantly about himself, work, how smart and well off he is, etc. The only questions he asked me about myself were "Are you addicted to any illegal or prescription drugs?" I said no because I'm not. He was silent for about 30 seconds and then proceeded to talk about himself. A few days later we met up for a coffee (WHY?!?!). First off, he was rude to the cashier. He asked a pedantic question about a drink she didn't know the answer to. He chuckled and said loudly "Well of course you don't know. You people never know much which is why you work for minimum wage." and he stalked off. I was stunned but managed to apologize to her like I was the asshole. So we sit down and he asked if my car was paid for. It wasn't and I said so. He glanced outside to where my car was parked, which was then about a whole year old, and said something like, "Well, its a Honda. It should be because that's a cheap car." Strike one.

He finally got around to asking about me. I was in mortuary school at the time and said as much. Immediately after saying that, he looked at me blankly and asked if I was in nursing school. Nope. Sure ain't buddy. Mortuary school. Dead people. Different gig entirely. He paused again and then asked if was interested in necrophilia or blood sports (?). I am not but he didn't seem terribly interested in that answer and tried to talk me into dropping out of school (I was then a week or two away from graduating) to go to beauty school because "a lady shouldn't fiddle with the dead." He then began telling me some shit about how I needed to get my clothes professionally tailored as off the rack clothes were for "plebs". He seriously said plebs! Strike two.

20-30 minutes in I was ready to get the hell away from him. Every fiber of my being said it and it was palpable. He picked that time to jump up to try to hug me. I recoiled in horror which offended him greatly. Then he launched into some crap about how I had obviously been sexually abused because I didn't want him touching me and because I chose a "provocative pseudo career that silly men would find interesting". What?!? Then he said more crap about how having sex with him would heal my broken, sexually abused soul. Strike three. I said I had to go and basically shot out like a rocket. He called me five minutes later about "doing this again tomorrow night". Um, NO!

Bonus: I straight up ghosted him which was mean and something I never do, but dude was an asshole. I got looooooog voice messages from him for about two weeks saying things like I lead him on and how my DNA was still on him (I did not touch him except to put up my arm when he tried to hug me). The last message before I blocked him was about how if I thought he was crazy I'm wrong because his mom had him tested after his sister discovered he was torturing and maiming small animals.

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