Look, I have to say I agree with you on some points but don't act like you're the one with the moral high ground in this discussion.

I don’t engage with people who have no desire to engage in good faith discussion, or who use slurs like that. You’re clearly ignorant.

You say that and act like you didn't just end with:

Downvote cause you’re butthurt, then put on your big boy and girl pants and try and learn some empathy especially when it makes you uncomfortable to do so

And you claim you're the one "engaging in good faith discussion". You need to stop acting so self-righteous if you ever want to get people to be on your side