Youre misinterpreting literally everything I'm saying. I'm trying to say this is rooted in a hatred for lesbians and misogyny in online spaces that are supposed to be for us, so men as a whole dont have to face that in the same way we do. I am personally not gender critical, I hide away on twitter because I am scared and am only there for artists I follow. I am scared of being 'called out'. I am not emotionally capable of such things and surviving backlash because of trauma related issues. I have been doxxed befoee when I was a teenager and I am scared of being 'controversial' or 'out there' and someone threatening me. I am not emotionally capable of standing my ground on my own. Hence why I wanted to make sure I had emotional backup from my friends. Not everyone is capable of such things and you would do well to remember that.