I came across Maxine because I suspect that my brother in law may be on the spectrum however I would never bring it up because obviously he may not be but from the things my sister tells me and what I have seen myself, I can’t shake the feeling.

My sister has no idea why he is the way he is, despite being married 14 years and having a child together. My sister is very self involved and has demonised him constantly and in front of their child. Whilst I don’t excuse his behaviours, I’m increasingly worried that she is going to destroy his life because she is sharing stuff on fb about abuse aswell as cheating on him.

The way Maxine describes everything is exactly what seems to be going on in their relationship. It’s all very much one sided, he’s evil and she’s done nothing wrong. I’m sorry to say this but my sister has been a constant stress factor in my life, so much so that I’ve distanced myself from her but often have to see her if I want to see my mum. She also said in the past that he is the male version of me and I have always sympathised more with him because I know how spiteful she can be.

Sorry I don’t know why I’ve shared all this, I guess I just need insight and don’t know how to go about it.

Side note : I don’t condone abuse and everyone should feel as tho they can speak up. I also don’t agree with Maxine, I believe that things can be better if we’re just accepting of one another