Some guys had a competition to see who would “get” me first.

First, i think you should do whatever you feels is right, and makes you happy.

I feel your your perspective of this is wrong. I dont personally know these people so if you have reasons other than what was posted originally, then just ignore this. Think about all 3 of them having a crush on you and them trying to find a fair way to see which one can ask you out without hurting the other ones chances. So they think the only fair thing to do is all start texting you, and let you pick if you actually like any of them. This keeps them from having any bad blood between them because it feels really bad if your friend asks out your crush behind your back.

I dont feel like you should feel objectified by them doing this because it doesnt seem like they did anything rude and sleezy, however i have little experience with feeling objectified so my knowledge on it is very little and should be taken with a grain of salt.

For blocking him on everything, i do feel like its an overreaction since it seems like you genuinely liked him, at least as a friend. I am also a very forgiving person (my best friend totalled my car and we are still best friends). So again, take me saying that with a grain of salt. I do think that you should confront him about it, tell him how it makes you feel, and give him a chance to make it up to you.

However, at the end if the day, im a random internet person with very little knowledge of how your daily life goes and the interactions leading up to this moment. It is your decision and whatever you feel like doing is most likely for the best.

Note:im not looking to argue about this, these are just my thoughts on it.

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