That is a really twisted way to view things. For toxic repulsive men every notch is a plus, for mature competent men, it's a minus for us too. The only kind of woman that wouldnt care if i have STDs and dozens of partners is not the type of woman you marry (at least not for long). You are taking a quality that only exists in toxic douche bags and applying it to all men (sexist) and then holding all women to the same toxic standard. You're all turned around. Rational reasonable and mature adults with healthy relationships do not go around fucking everything that will have them, that applies to men and women. Only toxic unempathetic narcissistic sociopaths go around racking up sexual partners and thinking that adds some kind of value to themselves, it doesn't its a minus for both genders.