Some women don't even want to match anyone

Absolutely! Tinder needs an initial messaging time limit like bumble has and this shit wouldn’t happen. There is no way in the world anyone can manage hundreds of matches in a realistic way. Think about your email inbox when you don’t check it on a regular basis.

I am on tinder, bumble and hinge and tinder has been the absolute worst. I get matches on all of them, but the actual conversations on tinder are pretty much non existent past my initial message.

I messaged one girl the day we matched. No response. She kept slightly retooling her profile and adding pics. I messaged her one more time a few days later commenting on her updates and she responded with “thanks lol”. So I responded with “Hahahaha..well, you’re welcome, lol”. I unmatched her a few days later. That tells me right there that you’re more serious about promoting your fucking Instagram page than actually meeting someone if you put zero effort into a conversation.

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