As someone who has been abused by men repeatedly for my whole life, I don't give a fuck about the suffering of men at all

I made a comment about this, earlier this week somewhere else. I reported one of my abusers. There wasn't even a case. They interviewed him found there was no point to looking into it more, it and closed it. It compounded my trauma.

All I can really hope for is that someone else comes forward in the future and maybe she'll get taken more seriously.

I went to the police when a former flatmate send their boyfriend around to threaten me to "make my life so hellish, I would kill myself", the man taking the report actually laughted at me.

I know that the 2% or 2-8% of false accusations statistics that manosphere fuckers like to cite includes all the cases the police has not deemed important enough.

I know that most rapes and assault don't get reported.

Men tell you, trust me. But when you get hurt they put the blame on your for trusting other men.

This morning I explained to my flatmate that you can take ibuprofen and paracetamol at the same time and then I remembered when I learned that.

After a miscarriage, in horrible pain. Where the doctors refused to give me anything stronger to help, saying as a woman I should be used to the pain.

It's bleak. It is why I say, I feel you.

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