Well I don't really want someone who appreciates a penis and that's the problem, which is why I'm going after srs as my ultimate goal. I'm just wondering if it makes a difference. Honestly, the second a guy shows interest in my penis because it's a penis I'm out of there. I'd like a guy who likes vagina that either makes me his exception because I am pursuing surgery and he likes everything else about me, or is cool with it if I meet him and I'm post surgery unlike guys who want me, find out I'm pre op and bounce. And I get it, I'm not into vagina either so I'd never be cool with dating someone who had one. I'm just hoping that being post surgical will change things somehow. It's not my only reason for surgery but it's a big hopeful one that I hope happens.