Sounds weird BUT, does anyone think of how our grandparents approached women??

Well, there were also a lot more arranged marriages. So your grandparents might have been that. Back in the day, women tended to not necessarily be the ones who made the choice. I hear what you're saying, but factors have changed and equilibrium of attractiveness have shifted. There's simply just a lot more competition now if you're a man. It can be super daunting and quite depressing, but I am hopeful because I know that I'm somebody who deserves to not be alone. I'm somebody who is a good man, and I care. I don't care if that makes me "beta," because I pride myself in my kindness. I will be the best dad in the world because of it and I won't fucking change for anybody. But yet, I'm alone and it makes me sad to think inwards. That's why I have to distract myself, otherwise I might have killed myself in that tub a year ago. I didn't because I couldn't.

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