South Korea is currently under an invasion of sexpats

Hello, let me explain something, at least from my perspective.

I am White and you will see me with many pretty girls in Korea. It is not always like it looks like.

I like to travel and I use some pen pal websites to meet local people. Believe me, I would love to get know more Korean men but it's almost impossible online. I messaged lots of Korean guys but they either never replied or were afraid that I am gay. And I can understand them! Nothing against homosexuality but I always get messages from homosexuals all around the world and it's obvious they don't look for friendship. Most of my friend, I would say 95% are females all over the world. I know only two men in Korea and one in Japan (and he's the only person in Japan I know).

You think I wouldn't like to meet male friends in Asia, hanging out, playing football in a different country, getting drunk and other things you usually do with guys? That's why I was always around a pretty Korean girl when I visited your continent but we are not a couple, just friends. All of them were or are in relationships. One girl even wants to introduce me to her boyfriend this year who will go out with me. The same girl will also introduce me to some Korean guys who live in Taiwan.

It's very uncomfortable for me getting stares all the time but I want to have a good experience and that's why I have to meet locals. It's just a different travel experience. If you meet locals online, it's mostly the opposite gender if you are a man. I am pretty sure it's the same for other "WMAF" you see in Korea.

Many Korean women are naive in my opinion. They just meet people without even knowing them because they believe that everyone is good and has no intentions but they are surely not easy girls and I think that's why so many of these expats are bitter because they got rejected several times.

I saw these WMAF pairs too in Seoul, not many, but from all I saw only two seemed like a real couple.

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