My dad was always very great at not influencing me when it comes to that. The only thing he really didn’t like was back when I used to dye my hair a lot because he was scared I would damage my scalp. But his wallpaper is a picture of young Kate Bush, and I sometimes question if my mum looks anything similar to her or if that’s just an aesthetic preference. So I get your point.

My grandpa on the other hand really really influenced me a lot. When he saw girls my age wearing things he thought looked good, he told me to buy stuff like that or straight up sent my grandma out to buy me clothing like that. He still does it sometimes and I’m 20 years old! He also talked a lot of shit back when I used to dye my hair, but I just ignored it. He loves me and I love him, but you can tell he’s from another generation easily.