I don't know of any spells but healthy diet, exercise, mediation and yoga are really good things you can do to get that sex drive back, healthy mind healthy body - healthy body healthy mind. But if you are having difficulty with that sort of things then there are also many foods and herbs that can help out, I would just google herbs/food to improve sex drive. There are a few medicinal mushrooms that be beneficial also and can be really effective. I think maybe reishi and Cordyceps, medicinal mushrooms and some other herbs/foods can also help in relaxation which might be able to help yo meditate better. Sorry if that's not the kind of advice your'e looking for but it;s the best I can do.