After we hung out for the weekend and hooked up, before I was about to leave his phone was buzzing and I asked who it was.

He told me it was a tinder girl he fucked a few days before our weekend. She didn't want anything emotional from him, it was just sex.

I was upset about that and told him I really liked him.

He asked me "do you want to be in a relationship?"

I said no because relationship means long-term. We don't even know if we are actually complatible. It's not like you go on one date and then agree to a relationship.

He took my no as a solid no, she's no interested in me.

The next day he wouldn't reply to me and I guessed he was with the Tinder girl because when I was with him and she was texting him, he didn't reply to her.

I was trying to clear up where we stood as I wanted to "date" him and get to know him more before agreing to a legit relationship.

Of course he wasn't replying and the next day confirmed it was because he was fucking her. The he said he would ditch her and date me, get to know me, without seeking anyone else, if that is what I wanted.

I'm hurt about it.

Thanks so much for reading and giving me your opinion. I haven't told my friends this because I know they will tell me to not waste my time on someone like that.