Spiritual abuse?

I am in a kind of same situation with my daughter. Her behave and attitude is like she always knows how to talk and act as if she is very kind hearted and spiritual doing the positive and right thing. Especially to me she let me feel and know I am seeing it always wrong and indeed I must have a low vibration as she said often.

I also am going through healing trauma’s but she has no any warm empathy towards me or consideration, like everything is my fault, I choose for it. It really feels like a form of gaslighting and I feel she is controlling and manipulating, even maybe also narcissistic.

I am dealing with a hard time at the moment ( not my fault ) but because of her spiritual “wisdom and knowledge” I feel even more in a lonely struggle. I am wondering how people can translate and use spirituality so different. For me it is showing and feeling unconditional love and care for yourself and others, helping each other grow instead of taking people down with technical spiritual “knowledge “.

My daughter is proudly acting she is having a big knowledge of spirituality but didn’t hold herself back to verbally attacked me in a restaurant last week. On top of all I am already going through it is really hard to deal with and I feel heartbroken.

I find it painful to experience that there still is not an understanding between spiritual people to try to exchange empathy for others especially when you feel you’re both spiritual. Sorry for my English it is not my first language

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