(Spoiler) A truly underrated aspect of 13 Reasons...

28/M, heterosexual. From experience I've learned that building up her horniness with foreplay greatly reduces the chance of her not consenting:

1) Take it slow. Get them really horny first. Making out is a great way to do that as is fondling braless nipples. Visualize unhooking a bra with one hand, many guys can't do that till their mid-20's.

2) Once you've been making out for a while, slowly introduce manual foreplay. Slowly slide your hand up her groin muscle. Then put her other hand on your hand and she will likely put it on her pussy.

If she doesn't then she hasn't necessarily rejected you in her mind. Use that hand to rev her up some other way and you can try again later.

3) Verbally ask for consent in a sexy, manful way. My canned line is "You want my cock in your pussy?" as I put her hand on my dick. She'll usually put it in her pussy without saying anything, but sometimes they'll just say "yes" (or "no") and you'll have to do it yourself.


Also, the hardest thing I've ever done in my life is not rape a drunk chick who passed out in my bed. I could see myself losing control if I'd been a few years younger.

If you ever come into that situation, I strongly recommend forcing yourself out of bed and jacking off in the bathroom. Then physically remove her from the room if you have to.

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