You're making an association where there isn't one.

In the game, meet anders, he comes off a little strong, i don't really mind, i was just off guard. It's not just the behavior, but also the unexpected nature of the game design itself, because you don't usually see gay or bi people in games.

You have a few conversations with anders, and the choices in dialogue make it so when you try to skirt around/ignore the heart/flirty dialogue, anders becomes visibly annoyed when you ignore his subtle flirtation towards you.

Near the end of our conversations there comes a moment where it's i think inescapable where you have to pick a dialogue to either flirt with anders or pick the heart break icon. I'm a straight guy, no interest in anders never have done, always been business and that's always been my behavior, never reciprocated flirty dialogue even though he continues too and sometimes he would be visibly annoyed at that and sometimes he wouldn't.

ignore flirt dialogue

Anders: "Oh...well...ok then" get's back to business/quest dialogue

So when i picked the broken heart choice he becomes visibly annoyed for the last time.

All i was saying, and i shouldn't have to explain myself, heh, is that i was a little unnerved at how forward anders was.