I have strange tastes apparently.
My standards are pretty much the same for this category. I really find it a waste of time to be around people I cannot stand. I am not going to have sex with someone I do not want to associate with. There is always a risk that the other person will become attached.
I'd say it really depends on the situation. Some men can pull off certain traits that I normally find unattractive. My biggest deal breaker is personality to be honest. I nearly asked out an obese man because of a 10 minute conversation we had. Had he stayed any longer, I probably would have. My tastes in women are more strict than my tastes in men. I am only really attracted to one subset of women.
My must-have's would be: -The ability to have an interesting conversation. I'm not going to invest my time in you if every conversation feels like a chore.
-High emotional intelligence.
-Sincerity
-Similar tastes
-Close to my age. Between 19 and 29. I prefer that they are in their 20s though.
Preferred:
-No gauges. I will make an exception if they are smaller.
-Round, oval, or heart-shaped face.
-Interesting, well-groomed hair. I have a bit of a hair fetish.
-Introverted. For the most part I prefer men who are introverted. This can be trumped if the man is extroverted, emotional, and slightly goofy.
-"In-touch with his emotions"
-Shy
-Nerdy tendencies
-Smiles often
-Open to change/trying new things
-Does not react violently to conflict
-Between 5'6-6'0. I am 5'8-5'9
-Thin
-Dresses well
-Encouraging
Things I find attractive, but are not a must:
-Androgyny
-Bisexuality
Biggest turn offs:
-Controlling
-Over-Protective
-Rude to peers
-Too much body hair
-Too masculine in appearance and behavior
-Sociopathic behavior
-Low IQ.
Women must-haves:
-Short
-Round-faced
-Sarcastic
-Hour-glass figure
-Just the right amount of fat (not too thin, not too heavy)
-Similar tastes