I started seeing a guy

I think it has to do with his culture tbh and the fact that he was very close with his mom and sisters. He was Punjabi and his family was Sikh which is an incredibly based religion so I think he was/is influenced to an extent by the principles of Sikhism although he doesn't really practice it. He was also effeminate in some ways (loves the color pink, likes stuffed animals etc) which is a big green flag to me.

I can't give much boy advice cause I don't have much experience, but I'd say some green flags to look out for are guys that have sisters they are close with, possibly guys who work out (this is hit or miss, but it can be a sign that someone has self restraint and discipline which are crucial to abstaining from p*rn), guys who have wholesome hobbies like sports, cooking, gardening, volunteering etc, (keeping themselves occupied with other things), guys who go to therapy, journal, or meditate, and people who are just free thinkers in general. Oh and pay attention to the people they are friends with.

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