Started seeing someone with ADHD. Any tips?

If you are adhd too, you can expect relationship hell. I was there. Its not working.

If you are not, you can expect quite a lot difficulties with him...

Constantly late, not remember your birth day, regular braekdowns, some adhd induced anger, debts etc., There are dark times with adhds. You can 100% count with that no metter how nice he is now.

Im with my gf for 4th yeah, im hardcore adhd, she is very tolerant, supportive and tryning to understand my anxieties, that I dont like social events as she is etc.. Im 100% happy with her. So he can be with you. But be ready for a bit more difficult relationship and it will take you sone effort to maintain such relation.

Now he is basiclay hyperfocused on you. Adhds are very empathic - thats why you have such a fun with him. Its quite easy to get someone to our side...

What I would do is to wait as long as possible. As adhd is sopectral, he maight be quite okay but also very unstable, depresive etc. - invest few weeks or months to understand how his situation is and whats his personality. Ask for debts, medication and be carefully, adhds lie quite often.

Sorry for my grammar and format. I wish you good luck ;)

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