I stopped reading when you said that you have time to serve on the weekends yet stated that you’re not a server. Good for you to be in a position to work 20 hours a week. My DMs are open if anybody needed advice. I did not at all try to paint myself out to be some success story. I still have a long way to go. I am under 30 but wish I had started this transition sooner than later. You can say my mindset is privileged if you want, but I’d say that yours comes off as more of a victim standpoint. Do you expect me or anybody to give you a step by step guide and walk you through how to get an office job? That comes off super entitled. Sorry that I offended you.