Fetishes make people do weird shit. Also as a man I can safely say that we are sexually obsessed and do depraved things and it is very much a genetic imperative in a lot of people, HOWEVER, actually acting on these feelings is where lies the problem, especially if it's with the general public; it's fucking disgusting. I have sexually depraved thoughts constantly and never once have I thought about approaching someone in the fucking street or a fucking shop and fucking talking to them about it. Jesus fucking Christ they need to get a fucking grip and stop acting like a cunt.

Sorry you have these experiences, I guess there is a kind of gravitational pull for perverts in that kind of territory. It makes sense but it's definitely not fucking okay.