I was date raped by two guys when I was 19, after my boyfriend blew me off at a party because I was "too drunk." I went thru the horror of a rape kit the next day, one of the guys had four pending rape charges against him, and I was LITERALLY FUCKING TOLD BY THE STATE POLICE that I was a liar. All charges dropped right there. So "are the guys in jail" is one of the most ridiculous question I've ever heard. I thank my lucky stars that I never fully regained memories of that night, because even the late-night-anxiety realization that people might remember that situation, when I don't, is enough to keep me awake at least once a year. I'm thirty fucking three.