there was a girl who was into me and she liked me for the longest time. i wasn't "not" into her but also i didnt like her as much. i basically just saw her as a friend and had better friends and intreset in life so she was just a friend who i would talk to sometimes but not a lot. after a long time i genuinely felt bad for her because she was always there for me and supported me so i started investing in the relationship with her. she immediatly start liking me less because i became less "tough" ? i mean WHAT ?? i litrally didnt care about you i wasnt acting tough! i guess some girls just like going behind guys who are not into them. idk why that shit confused me.