Things came to an end with the girl i have been seeing for the past month ish. She slept at my place and had dinner with me on friday, and then on sunday she asked me if I wanted to come to the cafe she works at and have lunch with her. I did and it was nice but I could sorta sense something was off. Then on monday she sent me a pretty long message where she said what was up. As I wrote in the other post she had said to me she was always going to be honest with me about her feelings and she basically said that she doesn't think that there's any long term potential since she doesn't feel anything more than that she enjoys being with me. But that she needs to feel something more and knows how it can feel and it doesn't feel like that. She also again told me that if she could decide she would fall in love with me and blah blah cause I seem perfect and safe and bunch of stuff, which doesn't exactly make me feel better but whatever. Nice ego boost I guess? She also said we could meet up and talk about it if I wanted to, but that she understands if I don't. I told her I really appreciated her honesty and that it has been a lot of fun getting to know her and all that, but honestly it just sucks and I'm actually pretty bummed out about it. Probably more than I should be after "breaking up" with someone I only dated for a bit more than a month. It felt so promising for a while but I'll be fine, life goes on. I have been here before and this is obviously not the last time this will happen either, it just sucks being back on square one. Especially since I really do like her.