Story Time - Week of March 04, 2019

Met with an exchange student that is spending one semester in my city this Friday after some basic messaging. It wasn't really a planned date, more like I said I had free time later that night and if she wanted, we could meet. She said she was going to spend some time with her friends first but wanted to meet later that night.

we continued to text a little during the evening and around 00:30 she asked if I still wanted to meet and she could come to my place and I agreed. When she come, we drank some wine and started to talk and I was watching Parks & Rec before she come so that was on in the background. After chatting for a while we started to watch the tv more and cuddled a little on the sofa. I didn't feel any "emotions" from her so I didn't know what she wanted but after some time I asked her if she wanted to do anything else, she said "like what?" and I went in for a kiss(I took a chance), she got confused and said something like "eeh what, I dont feel like that" and I said "its alright, we don't need to do that". We continued to watch some episodes and around 03:00 she said she should probably go. After we said good byes, I went in for a hug but she kissed me and I was confused, like she didn't show any "interest" before that except that cuddle.

I am a little confused about the whole thing. I usually do sleep on first but not always but this whole thing confused me. Like she wanted to come to my place late at night after drinks with her friends so I thought she wanted to have sex too.

Can anyone help me understand what happened here? Did she maybe change her mind when she were here? But why kiss me when we said good bye? Everything feels off for me.

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