Story Time - Week of May 29, 2017

Ah, so we've already resorted to digging through several week old post history. Not sure what a 'sock puppet' is, I'm not well versed in buzzwords, but this account is a year old and my only one. You should know that from your investigation :)

You're the one telling people if they prefer people not to ask first they have 'issues', pretty sure the burden is on you to explain why. Why the hell do I have to 'make a point' defending my own personal preferences to some neckbeard attempting to tell other people how to live their lives that have nothing to do with you? When someone says 'Well I rough sex/bdsm', despite it not being the norm, do you require them to tell you why?

I could care less if someone prefers someone to always ask, they may feel as they please and I think no less of them for it. You're the one trying to police other people's lives.

BUT, seeing as you for some reason feel entitled to a justification of my personal feelings, the majority of the time I feel someone asking to kiss me would dampen the mood. I'm not going to really mind if they do it, but if we're on a date and things are going well, I don't mind them initiating without explicitly saying they're going to. I suppose it's the idea that we both know things are going well without explicitly saying so.

Seriously, protest all you want, but you are EXACTLY the type of person who belongs on r/niceguys. You could have gone with 'Well it's always safer/better to ask', but instead you went with shaming people for their preferences that don't include you in the slightest.

/r/Tinder Thread Parent