Spent two nights at a hotel as a first date. Posting for the sake of remembering it later for myself. I'll call her Mel, the sex was amazing and she had a lot of spunk. I thought it'd be a casual hook up but it turned out to be more.
Mel was visiting a friend for the week and she wanted a change of scenery. We matched and I offered for her to stay at a hotel with me for one night before she had to fly back home. She accepted and told me I better be with it. I was feeling sick days before our night in downtown but I didn't want to flake last minute since she was visiting the city.
I picked her up outside her friends house and my first impression was that she wanted to put up a tough front but was nervous too. In the car I listened mostly and made her feel at ease with some stories. After checking in I grabbed her in the elevator and kissed her. She told me later that's when she knew we were going to have great sex.
We grabbed a quick bite at a pokebowl place and went to pick up massage oil and lube as she was petite. First time picking out condoms with a tinder date on our first meeting, and she even paid. I kept up the foreplay while shopping and teased her with what was going to happen tonight.
We were grabbing each other down the hall to the room. Mel was trying to not seem too easy by not letting me on top of her, which she stopped doing once she trusted me. She asked me if I was good lover and I told her I was. Once the clothes were off she was very enthusiastic and vocal, which I liked. It was difficult to get going at first as she was petite but once we got going we were both very into it.
We went to the pool afterwards, had a deep talk about our pasts and some spiritual stuff. Took a shower and had sex again, hit our stride this time and both got off. Had a steak dinner at a restaurant downstairs, and after we watched the finals game while giving each other foot massages which was my favorite part. Before going to bed we pulled up some old punk rock songs we both listened to in school and sang the lyrics. Mel had said it was like a honeymoon which I thought was the perfect description. We watched some anime she wanted me to see before falling asleep.
Next morning we woke up rather late and went to get pho. She jokingly offered to pay for another night if I was game. I wanted to do the same but I was hesitant as two nights spent together on a first date is pretty heavy. The sex after we got back thinking we weren't going to see each other was the best sex out of the weekend. Afterwards I didn't want to drop her off right away and we went to a mall to get her a luggage and we watched a movie together. Finally I dropped her off and said goodbye.
Back home after a few hours passed I changed my mind and told her to get ready as I'm picking her up. She was very glad and she came packed for the night. We went to a great restaurant near a different hotel. There was live music and the food was fantastic. We were supposed to catch a show but after checking in the hotel we just stayed in for our last night.
Next morning we checked out and grabbed some brunch, I dropped her off at her friends house for her flight that night. I wish I had taken pictures or videos with her. She had taken a few herself. She lives on the other coast so I didn't want to get attached. Back home the next day it felt like a short lived dream. We facetimed the other day and we had a good time reminiscing. She told me she'd send me a postcard which I thought was cute. Mel asked me to visit her in her city which I am considering. All in all a very memorable tinder connection.