I had decided to take down my dating shingle for awhile after I got excited about an ex who reached out to me, but it turned out he was trying to cheat on his gf. And, also not being able to muster up enough enthusiasm for the guy I'm currently kind of seeing (not exclusively). I also took down my OKC profile because I couldn't find anyone I was excited about meeting.

But, this week, a friend of mine seems to be making the moves. I'm intrigued. I've known him for 2 years, met on OKC. I always was under the impression that he wasn't terribly physically attracted to me. About a year ago, we got drunk, and I made the moves on him. I was really curious what it would be like to sleep with him (we talk about sex a lot). But, I came away from the having sex with him still feeling like he wasn't that enthusiastic about me physically. He complimented me on physical things, but the whole vibe was off. The next morning, I texted him and said we probably shouldn't do that again, but let's stay friends. He seemed a bit surprised, but also fine about it.

About a month ago, we were chatting by text, and I mentioned that I called the sex off with him because I was under the impression he wasn't that into me physically. He said he had been tired, and he started giving me all these compliments. I told him I wasn't fishing for compliments. I just wanted to tell him what happened from my perspective because I felt like I hadn't been totally honest. We let the conversation go at that point because it got weird.

Anyway, out of the blue, he says he really likes me as a person (apparently because he thinks I'm odd), and he invited me over to smoke weed and "make out" next week. I wonder if he wants to start something up. I really like him as a person too, we've been good friends for a long time. We'll see.