No it would be as if someone said people with black hair who believe they're blonde are mentally ill and you came out and said what about redheads when they're not really relevant like intersex people really aren't relevant to biologically one sex believing they're another because intersex means you're not one gender. I truly don't understand how to you it makes more sense that a person was actually born a man in a woman's body or the opposite instead of them being mentally ill. If someone told you they believed something that's clearly not true like being blonde even though their hair is black would you believe they actually were a blonde just with wrong hair or mentally ill?