Stressed out with something that happened yesterday I'm (19F) and my boyfriend (19M) doesn't seem to give a shit

I was also a gamer as well, but I had to give it up as I cannot handle the amount of school work and gaming.

If he had time to do both, would he not have time for a maybe 5-10minute phone call for me to fill him in on what happened throughout the day?

I know breaking into his facebook is wrong. Maybe, I'm not as low maintenance as I'd like to think, but I generally do not break into his facebook. I think I've at-most gone on it like 2 - 3 times, over the course of the past 2 years, usually to confirm my suspicion if he's lying. He lied everytime I suspected it, but it wasn't a big enough deal for me to bring it up or start/pick a fight over, and it was never a big lie or anything, I did confront him about it before about him lying about the little things, he said I was being like his 'mother' and felt like I was always wondering what he's doing. Because of this, I usually don't ask what he's up to anymore.

We get to see each other like once every one or two months. Which is not very frequent, during the past 2 years we've been in college. I've never been the type of gf, to demand luxurious things or anything, and I was never mad when he didn't buy me a 1, or 2, or 3, year gift for our anniversary, or did not buy me a birthday gift for my past two birthdays. Even though, I always got him something, whether it be bought or just something made like a card... :/

Like I know we're college students with low budget, but I'd like a small card or something. My friends have all told me that I'm really low maintenance for all of that etc., the type of gf that doesn't need a dime spent on. (Different kind of maintenance ? )

It does cross my mind from time to time, but I just appreciate his company. I don't consider that too high maintenance, or too needy considering some days we can go without talking if he's too busy, or if I'm too busy.

I like talking with him though, he's very sweet and loving online usually and through calling which makes me very happy usually.

I don't want to do the confrontation again, because I don't want it to be a repeat again of me being 'motherly' or questioning him too much, like the last time I confronted him for this.

I just want him to know I knew he was lying, and I'd like to know whether he gives a shit about my day when it went literally upside down. :/

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