Stressed out with something that happened yesterday I'm (19F) and my boyfriend (19M) doesn't seem to give a shit

In response to the deleted comment:

He is 5 hours away, I'm sure he knows that I don't expect him to come-over. Let alone, we see each other at most once a month... I'm in school right now.

All I needed was a 5-10minute phone call... I didn't say it was the only time.

Yes, I'm 19 and I have a property. It is not a luxurious property. You're jumping too many conclusions on me. Through all of highschool, I worked 10-15hours a week at a minimum job as a waitress, saved a lot of money from living at home that way as well as collecting tips, as well as working about 60 hours a week during off summers. By the time I started college I had 40k saved up. Not bad for someone who just finished high school ?????

That with some money subsidized from my parents, as well as plenty of student loans and a mortgage and my parents name for 1% of the property to guarantor me. There are some rooms being rented out for rental income as well to help subsidize the house. On top of all of that I have tuition.

My unit is not the only unit affected. I had to get in-touch with the board of directors, who was not only useless and not helpful. But provided me papers to EXPIRED insurance papers, I do not have a car I had to bus up to his office to get confront him in person to get the right insurance papers to see what the condo corporation will cover.

I had to gather information about my own insurance policies, and work out things with my insurance company. Moreover with that, I have 3 other roommates/tenants that I have to work out damages with due to the flooding. I have to work with their rental insurances (if applicable) as best as I can, and for the ones without insurance, I had to look for ways to help them out as much as I can.

With all that, my insurance adjusters came into assess the damages. I had to show them all the damages and make sure everything is covered. Asking questions regarding rental liability etc.

Moreover, I have to look for alternate accomodations while the water damage is being remediated. The area is not livable while it is being accomodated, and my insurance is refusing to pay for 'additoinal living expenses' while they deem the rooms livable under construction.

Moreover, I am working with other landlords to get our board of director of the condo to provide subsidy from the condo. The board of director of the condo is not being very co-operative at all, from providing us with EXPIRED insurance licenses.

Now, tell me. At 19 am I allowed to be freaking out? My parents are not in town to help me out. Moreover, I have an 3rd year engineering schedule that I am handling, if you know a thing about engineering you should know that the schooling is vigorous.

Now, I could be over-reacting and be over-stressed what might be very easy work for someone else. But as someone who's never had to do any of this before, it is stressful for me.

I'm having a very bad day, I did not sleep. I'm tired and want to talk to someone I like talking to.

I'm just gonna stop complaining.

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