3. I struggle to make close friends especially with other women

I struggle to make close friends especially with other women

Hey I’m 30F. I remember when I was 17. My best friend was diagnosed with schizophrenia and disappeared. We had a small group of girlfriends but after she disappeared, we all went separate ways. I had a guy best friend too. Once he got a gf, he also disappeared. So I totally get you. I was there!

Fast forward to today-

I have so many friends now. What worked for me is getting a therapist and working on myself and becoming my best friend. Started doing activities that I truly enjoy by myself. I enjoy hiking, running, reading, etc. I joined clubs like trail running club, hiking club, etc. Also forced myself to go to all the outings with school people (I’m an introvert).

Work on yourself and keep putting yourself out there. People will want to hangout with you! I know it’s hard to imagine right now with the pandemic but don’t give up. There’ll be lots of opportunities!! ♥️

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