Struggles with dating as a brown guy

Man, I used to feel the same way. What you need to realize is that it's FOBs and weird dudes that have a problem. Normal Brown dudes that respect women, dress nice, and have common social skills aren't included in the same boat as them and girls know that. Focus on yourself and the things you can change. Continue going to the gym (find a different routine if it's not helping).

If you think about Brown guys being undesirable then you'll keep pushing yourself away from approaching girls. Think about it this way. We've got the skin tone of Latinos and features of White guys, two of the most "desirable" groups. That should help you think better.

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