sacrifice: 1. i don't want to sacrifice this career. i love it, even though it's making life a bit difficult. i know RPW is all about stay at home moms/choosing less demanding careers--- and i plan on adopting a more domestic life once i can go full freelance---but this skillset is just in my blood, it's been a hardcore passion ever since i was a kiddo.
minimizing expenses: 1. could sell my car, take transit instead. but nothing is close by, so commute to work would be 1-1.5 hr each way. somehow my gym would be 45 min away too when it's a 12-15 min drive. thought about cancelling my phone a few times. i'm planning on getting a homestay in one of the rooms to try out, that should really help in the fall.
thanks for taking the time to talk with me, i appreciate it. i found the post about arguing and i think i just need to work on not being the 'ignition' if he sets off a 'spark' (and vice versa).