Study shows you can change your personality through set goals and personal willpower.

I disagree with you and here are some examples why:

3rd place in the top this month-

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/33z0qh/1_year_here_these_are_the_most_important_lessons/

"Having a "everything is insignificant" attitude" "Just realize that everything is ridiculous and insignificant - if a girl rejects you, she'll forget about it within a week."

His mentality advice is to not sweat rejection because girls will forget about it, your just dust in the wind, and nothing matters. I disagree with this and I think its bullshit to "convince yourself everything's gonna be okay or doesn't matter so you don't have to actually confront rejection or failure." I don't think this is being strong, i think its avoiding pain and shouldn't be recommended.

also in the front page of this month:

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/348pym/the_recovering_betas_roadmapalso_why_you_should/

"Teasing is Twat Crack"

"Good post. Any examples of teasing? I should buy an imagination one day..."- 9 points

"Nicknames for something silly they do or wear. If they ask for a pencil/pen or any object playfully hand it to them then snatch your hand back. Mock them, make funny faces at them, I like flipping them the bird too. Grill them/ give them a hard time/ bust their chops. If they start complaining or pouting fold your arms across your chest and put on a pouty face. Hard to list them all, lot of it just comes naturally. You can find a lot of good stuff on chateuahearsiste and goodlookingloser too."- 8 points

Instead of just being in a state of "amused mastery" or being a confident fun guy, they just give him step by step fucking instructions on how to tease. That's bullshit. Teasing will come naturally if you work towards actually HAVING that mindset, not faking it. Faking it shines through every damn time.

There is a LOT of "how to fake it, here are tips how to pretend your this kind of person, heres some step by step options when in a situation" instead of the cold simple truth that you just have to BE that kind of person, not pretend.

And go onto fitness, gainit, getmotivated, getdisciplined, seduction, or any other improvement sub and they are CHOCK. FUCKING. FULL. of tips, tricks, and feel good bullshit to try to con yourself into becoming a better person instead of just nutting up and doing it. If you want, i can get endless examples from there but I figured using redpill examples would make my point better.

While this is common sense to you (although i disagree with that, I don't think its common sense to most people, from what I've read most people think certain aspects of their personality are cemented in place after childhood and I think its rare for someone to really overhaul their personality), I think its something people mentally avoid because its not the easy option and you can be spoonfed bullshit from all improvement subs that will make you feel better, and try to convince you that you can cover up your flaws rather than confronting or fixing them.

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