Good for you.

But the problem here is that you assume just because you've had a "pretty amazing sex life", that everyone else here will also, which is absolute horseshit expectations. Especially without stating your size, some of us are well below 4" here. Can those guys have a pretty amazing sex life too with 2-3" ?

If you genuinely believe so, then I wouldn't mind a little bit of what you are smoking my friend lol

Many of us here are still going through a shit time with dating/hookups and getting nowhere, not for the lack of trying.

At 40 and now being in a settled marriage, you have missed the real boom of porn crazy size queens that now infests the 20-30+ year old dating scene now.

You are talking about something that doesn't even really apply to you at this point, with the likes of all these apps like tinder, the internet/online dating etc, women can prescreen their lovers/hookups to all have big dicks or big average so its getting even more difficult to even find a date to form relationships.

Most of us here, actually do try to play the confident card when it comes to actual real life encounters and would never dare of revealing our insecurities to most people and guess what ?

it makes zero fucking difference to how a woman reacts to your penis size, infact many women hate a confident guy with a small dick and it makes you a bloody good target for women to destroy you publically.

Many of us here also go to insane efforts to try to be better in the bedroom or to "compensate" as most would call it, doing 10x more when it comes to foreplay, oral sex etc than your average bigger guys, but guess what ?

It doesn't make a great deal of fucking difference at all in the long-term, because most of these women still want and crave big dick, and are usually not satisified with yours and once the fun of oral wears off you are fucked anyway and they leave you.

I read a woman say today, you can teach a big dick guy oral sex, but you can't teach a small dick guy to have a big dick... That sums it up really, compensating works for so long, but its never enough to actually compensate for having a small dick.

Learning to be a better man, better person, insert the usual generic hippy wisdom bullshit lol It means nothing.

Many women specifically state that it doesn't matter if you are their soulmate, treat them like a queen, women shouldn't feel like they need to "marry down" or "settle for guys with small dicks" because size matters etc.