Why is this sub so mean to fat people?

EDIT: Holy shit what is this. I never said overweight people are entitled to have fit partners. They shouldn't expect fit guys to sexually prefer overweight people. But there is nothing wrong with fat people thinking that not-fat people are sexy or being turned off by other fat people. Also it looks as though people are saying that I'm fat just because I have some empathy for them. Also if you think that fat people are fat because they're lazy or weak-willed you clearly haven't met enough fat people. This thread has become a dumpster fire.

I must add and admit that my point from my thread before this and to a specific user before has been proven time and again by both you and other users who are getting agitated.

I, yes I, am the ONLY ONE being an asshole here and using harsh language to describe fat people. Everyone else is being VERY courteous in describing how they agree and see the flaw in fat people only chasing after top tier, hot and fit men. They see the irony in them not holding themselves up to their own standards, and the lashing out they that occurs when fat people are politely rejected by the very hot men they chase.

These users are also being attacked and criticized. This thread has become a "dumpster fire" because people dare point out, respectfully, the hypocrisy and double standard.

I think a level headed person can reach a conclusion from the abrasiveness in responses from fat users on here to everyone else being kind (other than me) and giving objective criticism that something with many gay fat men is seriously wrong and that they should perhaps make changes to either there attitudes, bodies, or (preferably) both.

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