This sub’s obsession with “femboys” and androgynous people is…uncomfortable

Point to me where the anti trans sentiment is on this sub, specifically, where are the posts and comments you speak of? Seems you are getting offended because the number of people who are attracted to trans people doesn't meet some imaginary quota in your own head. I'd suggest you are the one with a prejudice against people with a certain sexual orientation, don't dress it up in polite language, that's exactly the same as people who start a sentence with "I'm not racist but...." Having a sexual preference is NOT an " anti trans (dating) stance", what a loaded and devicive way to frame that.

People can be attracted to whoever they want, and amongst bi men (that includes a large proportion of tops) you will invariably see a slight skew towards a preference for "femboys" and to an even greater extent, twinks. This is perfectly fine. God help you if you ever hang out on a gay male sub, you'll be in a perpetual state of disgust as they talk of all the different tribes and who they are attracted too, from the feminine to the butch. Femininity to masculinity can and does exist on a spectrum entirely within a gender, ie there are feminine and masculine men, and feminine and masculine women, this seperate to someone identifying as trans. Are you trying to say there's no difference and that you can't understand how someone can have a preference for a feminine man and not a trans person? If so you really need a better understanding of all this because it does everyone a disservice.

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