I think civility is overrated. You weren't civil by the way, and civility is relative.

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I engage with people. I asked you why JP attracts so many republican men, and you came up with your response. One of two things will now happen. You will begin to question the things he says, why he says them, and to whom. Or, you will just remain static in your feelings about Peterson, which is fine.

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It is my belief that you have no real choice here, it will either happen or it will not, and you have very very very very little control over it. But it might, and I've seen it happen. People start asking questions and eventually pull away and it takes a while, sometimes years.